One of those things that is often both slightly overvalued and underappreciated is personality.
Although being described as having a “wonderful personality” is sometimes done so as a sly compliment, there are times when this is really the reality.
Being attractive will undoubtedly draw attention to you, but what will keep those eyes on you is a great personality.
How can you tell whether you have a lovely personality then?
Here are some of the common themes I’ve seen after spending time with individuals that I can confidently state possess this particular quality:
1) People Are Always Drawn To You
Yes, I’m not only talking about features; a wonderful personality also makes for an appealing individual.
People will always be attracted to someone with a truly attractive personality.
They’re a soothing presence in a world that is generally fast-paced and disorienting, which is uncommon in today’s society.
It’s not necessary for this attraction to be romantic or even something the other person is aware of.
Since spending time with someone who has a really attractive personality is always enjoyable, people tend to naturally flock toward them.
It’s a good indication that you have a lovely personality if others actually like simply being around you.
2) You Laugh Often
It’s not necessarily true that being humorous means you have a lovely personality, but beautiful individuals always know how to laugh at themselves.
Knowing when to laugh at something and not taking life (or yourself) too seriously has a lot of value, and a beautiful personality embraces this trait.
Laughing often demonstrates emotional maturity since it shows that you are aware of the circumstances that call for a lighter undertone.
You’ll constantly be urged to join in their laughter by those with lovely personalities that laugh with you.
3) You Have Great Listening Skills
You start to acquire a gift for talks when others gravitate toward you because of your personality, especially when it comes to listening to what they have to say.
People with attractive personalities are thus often outstanding listeners in their own right, giving the impression that they value and appreciate what others have to say.
Speaking with someone who has a lovely personality is never dull, and you never have to be concerned about the impression you’re making on them with your words.
Because you don’t really have to keep yourself back from stating what you mean while speaking with these folks, it’s easy to express your ideas without feeling self-conscious.
4) People Have Positive First Impressions of You
When you meet someone who has a wonderful personality, you may compare it to a kind of makeup that lets you know they’re going to be fun to be around.
People with attractive personalities often create the finest impressions because they always put their best foot forward and don’t worry about doing so.
Even if nothing else, a person with this personality always makes you enjoy your first encounter with them, regardless of the circumstance or activity.
Even if these characteristics or attributes aren’t expressed verbally, everyone can always sense an open, honest, and genuine demeanor.
5) You’re Patient With Others
I’ve always been in awe of folks who can tolerate all the unpredictable and, let’s face it, irritating things life and other people may throw at them.
Beautiful personalities are patient people.
These individuals are aware that certain things need a bit more attention than others, therefore they make the additional effort and time to address these needs.
That’s often best shown by their patience and recognition that certain things are just worth waiting for – a characteristic that’s uncommon in a lot of individuals.